the birth of a relationship..

went to yng's place for a chat before tuition earlier on.

well...we talked about a birth of a new relationship b/w 2 friends(not really my friends) and a relationship that has gone so wrong now b/w another 2 friends.
i guess it's wise not to mention the name here.

well...me,so far substained a 1 yr 6 days relationship with Jason.and it is my first.well..im not trying to show off..come on,its nothing really.

what i wanna say instead is..that the maintaining of a serious relationship between 2 persons is really not easy.
there are bumps,hiccups and strong tidal waves that swept u off ur feet now and then.and it takes alot of courage,communication and faith to go on.

thus i gave kudos who are like married for decades and are still holding hands.

and when u passed each bumps,you learnt more about the other half..and at the end of the day,you learn about urself.

haha..anyway..yea,i gave my best wishes to that 2 who are kicking off a new chapter of their life.welcome to the club~;p

i came across this bk 'A Legacy to My Sons'
the author is a father and of coz the book is dedicated to his sons.a very easy to comprehend yet each word is so wise.all about a father's reflection of life and living.
he wrote this book starting of with:

"My Sons,

Papa spend very little time with both of you.i am sorry.
this book is dedicated to you.please read it carefully several times over.i wrote it after much heart-searching.it contains wisdom gained from both my failures and successes. i want you to avoid life's pitfalls.what i have failed to tell you in person,i write in this easy-reading form to provide you with the guidance to enjoy living......."

ah..i cant finish writing the whole of this letter.
but once in a while will quote from his beautiful saying.and whoever (even if noone) bump across this blog,may pick the wisdom of his words.

n so i end with one of his quote,

YOU WILL NEVER KNOW A WOMAN UNTIL AFTER FOUR YEARS OF COURTSHIP.